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Heard on the Ferry going back to Cambridge, from a recreational venture to Revere Beach in 1941

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

     My good old dad, Col. Charles Webb Abbitt, of Appomattox, Virginia,  is a ‘well-spring’ of timely stories and sayings.  I have memories of laughing to the point of tears over some of them. But this particular phrase has stuck with our family for four generations.  I find it a brilliant description, one that stands on it’s own, as a culturally significant sample of the New England way of speech. Hopefully, that region’s accent remains with us today and has not acculturated into’ SVEN SPEAK’, but what can you do?   Traces of it’s unique quality will still be there, where and when people still talk to each other, there “where each Winter is too cold  to smile.”(1.)   Sometimes they even listen; but that is an acquired taste, for sure.


    This saying has stuck with me all my life as a useful and wonderful, discriptive key phrase – with out peer.   It is a true conversation blocker, no question.    This particular phrase was heard by my dad, in 1941 back when I wasn’t around to write about some of his more, amazing adventures.  But in the fall and winter after graduation, with a new degree in Electrical engineering.
, after he graduated from Virginia Military Institute, in May of that year, after some strange shuffling around the country in the Army Infantry (!), he was assigned to a Research and development graduate program at Harvard.  No summer Vacation for him that year. 

     This time period was before America’s official involvement in WWII, as those History Buffs that know stuff  like that would remind you.  He (my dad) was participating in the study and research and development that became Radar, something really very pertinent to the present day advancement of technology, but often overlooked as a “given.”  But it’s development we owe to the unforgotten, with-out equals, brave World War II Veterans of  The United States Army Air Corp and those other guys: (just a tad of comic relief, with the help of our Alies at that time…)

     Times Changes, and so do names:  ”The Army Air Corps ” was then, what is now “The United States Air Force”.

My Dad has had some of the most amazing experiences–  But Soldiers, in keeping to their purpose in what seems to be insurmountable,  personal destruction, here in the United States, anyway, tend to have their own  special brand of  humor, with Wit and Wisdom, and a certain “Can-Do” attitude.   Notice each Branch of the Military seemed to create their own funny phrases, just to get through what must have been more than horribly tough times, more horrible than we civilians can begin to  imagine.

     This is our infamous family Key Phrase; It is the kind of thing that floats thru the air if you listen closely, and have sufficient acting skills and knowledge of correct deportment and use it quite formally and naturally. With out causing a ruckus or reacting, my father and his then companion held a dead-pan-facial-expression, even when a knee slapper like this one came along. And for this dissonant sort of comment, great protocol, repressed hilarity and calm acting skills were used.  Even as I goof-up the editing of my story, I am laughing while trying to hold my sides together.   So many people ,even now–have problems with my Dad’s comic delivery;  just like that day back then when he returned from a balmy afternoon spent at in recreation at the always entertaining “Rah-Veeah”  “beach.”   It happened that way that day, when a shrill very loud voice belonging to a strange young woman said very publicly:

Geeze, Freddy,Aint it Row-manic? …  The Sky am lousey ‘mwit Staahrs.”

     Thanks Dad!,  And to all our remaining Veterans of WWII,  as well as our current soldiers over seas. (with special apologies to those with the Boston-Proper accent, which I acquired (temporarily) when I was 15 years old, then dropped like a stone.
     Don’t forget…”The Sky am lousey  ‘mwit  Staahrs”, and that  just maybe, we’re all looking, and wishing on the same one.

     With great respect for our soldiers no matter who, what branch, when and where they are. 

     I have a picture of my Dad,when he was about the same age, when he was in a most serious and attentive pose while addressing the Commanding officers, as well as the whole group of Troopers and Crew assigned to this mission, which was indeed the biggest air strike in the history of the planet: The Army Air Corps were in the process of getting supplies, gasoline and one overwhelmingly serious  and tenacious air support for General (5 stars)-George Patton when he drove on cross the Rhine River into Germany, at the beginning of the end of Germany’s tendency to overshoot it’s realistic goals.

 

 


Caroline Abbitt Sauer (AKA) Kay Buena

5. But why? And with out your Monday Pantie

Thursday, February 19th, 2009
Betty Jane's Monday Panties
Betty Jane’s Monday Panties

Betty Jane, you left your Monday panties, And it’s Thursday.  Is it always Monday where you are?  Guess what; same here. 

     So what happened wit youse? I mean most dolls tend  to return, when they take a hike.  I would be glad you’re (?) back, (somewhere–out there)   but much like Sherlock Holmes, you always  are who you disguised yourself as when last you changed roles– for a long  while afterwards.   Aren’t you?

    My hope is your Reality meter is clicking in, My other hope is that you are not one with the universe, that’s so tough to live happily afterwards, if you’re close; let me continue to ask the missing and menacing doll “Betty Jane” (an “Ideal Doll”, the old company, for what ever reason, you might like to have that in your memory once again, if not?  Some suck eggs.  Who cares about sanity when some jerk is playing a long Bass non-solo upstairs that makes the author of this silly intrusion wish for white noise.

    By the way;  Are you the one who hit those Commie Info sites> ?  Eh?  (Those clearly estupido jerks who would rather wait in line all day than do something productive) all youse need to wake up and smell de’  Coffee; There’s this nice little cliche, though not to be ignored as it is complex and three part true problem we all face every day of our lives: (1.) “What’s with: Cause and Effect? (1.)which came first?”  (3} And will it never end?”   But I am in digression as perusal.

      I’ll get your mug shot.  You’re the only one with my password, ‘cept me.  (Don’t say it, I know.) That comp nerd in residence knows all and sees all and seeks vengeance if reprimanded.

       Your new fashion direction, and surgeries  was an attempt I made to please you.  It was meant to make you feel and look better.  It was not a personal slam, and you shouldn’t take it so personal. you’re the one who hadn’t changed clothes in about 47 years, you were never an endorsement for high hygiene standards, but what the heck?  As you age your interests differ.  However, in your case (being locked in an old wizzelely moldy trunk for so long. Not at all and the rest of it could have been worse. I didn’t know the other dolls were all dead in there but you .  I am sorry, but my life hasn’t been a picnic lately either.
  You are just depressed because you look and feel (and think)  so young , and really you are probably considered an antique, as you are almost as old as I am, you’re all grown up and awkwardly anchient Caroline U. Hineyhine.  And there were times when my beauty service-changes were seemingly brutal as it might have seemed to some who didn’t figure she was a doll or some molded old style plastic- rather hard to the touch, but tough enough to have servived her 58 years of hard traveling existence. Or perhaps they have not been lucky enough to see her “before” and “After ” portraits, Either. But the people who aren’t taking into account this is a Doll we’re addressing as though entirely real, yet she is stuck in a time-space-continuum problemary action, from my voung childhood. However that was meant to please you, and sort of went wack on you, but who knows?  Madame Alexander>?  Unexpectedly your new get up has become central to your new assignment.  Well, it’s your life.  You could just walk out of there. 

   Don’t look now, but Social security these days is starting to mean being cofident of interactingand/or seeing allot of old hungry farts like you and I,  broke as a joke and huttled together in angst.    And note that we’re mid flight;  not there yet (for sure)… I’m looking for the “before” pictures we took during your makeover.  Will send on to you… (and the rest of whom ever  It’s not too late.  Normal is as normal falls.  We’ll even dispense with the big hair…?